from time to time as youth workers we get the ridiculous opportunity to pace through some very sacred moments with students and families. usually it’s in the midst of deep pain and sorrow on levels that we can’t possibly understand.
i got that email this week. and it’s been messing with my heart. i hate seeing students in pain more than anything else. i hate cruelty to others. i hate bullying, and the insensitive hurtful words that do so much damage. i hate abuse and neglect. and somedays i wonder if it’ll ever end.
i’m a big fan of places like my broken palace, and remedy live. i blogged about the former in a previous post. when i was checking out MBP’s tumbler today, i bumped into this video. so poweful.
i wonder do we tell the girls in our student ministries enough that they’re beautiful, just the way they are?
do we tell our daughters that? do our wives know?
and not just in words… but in other creative ways?
because what i do know… and i know it well this week… the voice of culture is LOUD. and the voice in culture is not communicating truth on this one. youth workers… speak up!
was just poking around over at craigslist – looking for a new pizza stone to help me perfect my store-bought pizza crusts. and then i bumped into this ad:
Uphappily married man looking for an uphappy married woman … to walk on the walking trails of the canal. Open to the friendship being with benefits after getting to know you for awhile.
so sad and so heartbreaking …and so real. i wonder, do our messages on sunday morning address this level of need, and the many like them? do we know that this is the reality for many people we greet at the door each week? do we have structures in place to help our people connect at deep enough levels with each other to help save some marriages? and when all the lights and fog machines are turned off, do our student ministries have the space to pace with this guy’s kids through the mess?
a few months ago i heard about the good people over at My Broken Palace and i’m quickly falling in love with all they have to offer hurting students. it’s more than a website… it’s a place where hurting teens can go 24/7 to know they’re not alone in their pain. if you work with students, this is a good place to point your teens in their time of need.
here’s a few videos to generate some interest. head to the site itself for more!
i’d love to know in the comments what else is out there right now to help students navigate their pain and hurt?